Lie is Common In Our Life


If you look around, you will find many people who lie many times during the day. In fact, it is said that almost all people on this planet lie at some or other point of their life. It is believed that the circumstances prevailing at that moment compels the people to lie. In most of the cases, people lie to protect their personal interes

People Lie in Relationships

The prime reason for this may be, that they fear that their partner would leave them if they open up their secrets. People lie in relationships to keep the negative aspects of their personality hidden from their partners. Many people do not admit about their past relationships or an extra martial affair, as they do not want their partner to interfere in their daily activities.Fear in the minds is responsible for making the people lie


People Lie at Work

The cut to throat competition to complete the tasks and achieve the higher positions, often makes people tell a lie. A lie is also used by many people for bad mouthing the rival employees, to gain their position or get ahead of them. Giving false reasons for not completing the targets is observed in many places. People also lie at the work place for improving their poor image. Many people lie for making quick financial gains.

How to know people lies-Catching a liar is hard

.When people tell lies, they often feel some anxiety. So look out for any out-of-the-ordinary behavior like excessive sweating or nervous tics. But first, make small talk to get the person comfortable, so that you have a sense of the person's normal, baseline behavior. "We're not looking to detect deception. We're looking to detect discomfort," explains Navarro.

.Discovered by San Francisco psychologist Paul Ekman, micro-expressions are brief displays of emotion that show what people are really feeling. If someone is pretending to be calm, but he's actually angry, a micro-expression of displeasure will flash across his face. These displays of emotion can hard to catch, though. They're fleeting and involve tiny facial movements such as the twitch of an eyebrow. But, says Navarro, "when they occur, they are very accurate."


.When people lie, they often feel insecure, and that emotion can express itself in their posture or in gestures such as shrugging their shoulders or folding their arms and legs into their body. Also: Look for submissive behavior like someone making a statement with their palms up as if they want to be believed. But keep in mind that all liars are different, and no clue is completely reliable. "There is no absolute indicator of deception


When people tell white lies, they often don't feel any anxiety at all and not easy to detect that type of people

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